Deep Process: Appreciating Diversity

Elizabeth M. Magill

Do you find issues arising along race, class, gender, religion, disability, education level, sexual orientation, or family structure lines? Has your community created its own “in” and “out” groups? Some of the challenge of living with diversity involves dealing more directly with how much we have in common with how different we are. In this workshop we will introduce tools that every cohouser should have for living with diversity and discuss how to use them in everyday situations. We will learn to name, appreciate, and celebrate our differences, how to evaluate both the intent and impact of our actions, how to empower others, and how to be an effective ally.

Elizabeth Magill (Liz) has been trying to live in cohousing since 2002. We move into Mosaic Commons this fall! A white, middle class, formally educated, queer, Christian, without any visible disabilities, and with English as her first language, Liz has worked as an anti-racism/diversity trainer for six years. Kids in Mosaic call her “crafty-Liz” which is about paper, glue, glitter, yarn, and beads, rather than a comment on her facilitation style. She’ll live in Mosaic with her partner Ken.

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In this workshop I learned

In this workshop I learned that valuing my own cultural background (midwestern protestant German-English American) is one of the first steps to valuing the experiences and heritage of others in my community. I felt both empowered and challenged by the experience.

Now if I can just learn to appreciate jello salad...

From Delaware Street Commons- IN KANSAS!
www.delaware-street.com

midwestern protestant German-English American

Jen, we share a similar heritage, though my parents resettled from St. Louis/Ohio to Los Angeles before my birth.

What is your thinking about embracing and valuing your heritage?

I guess I was really raised a liberal United States-ian.

As I reflect on your words, I believe I have identified with and valued the various sub-groups I've been a part of in the here-and-now as I've lived my life, e.g., Family, Unitarian, Grad Student, Computer Guy, Microsoft-ian, Songaian, Cohouser, rather than the cultures of my Great Grandparents, or their Grandparents. While I've visited England/UK, I've felt less connection than with New Zealand - which has a the more familiar recent western expansion into the West kind of feel.

In the mad rush of "civilization," the new is always tantalizingly before us. How will you embrace your heritage? Travel? Reading? Exploring local cultural associations?

From Songaia (near Seattle)
www.songaia.com

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