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Tools for Tackling Issues

These tools of use to groups tackling issues come from Seeds for Change, a British nonprofit that seeks to equip those working for change with better skills.

Handling inappropriate blocks in consensus

by Tree Bressen, Walnut St. Co-op

When a block arises in consensus process, the situation is typically scary for everyone involved, and it can cause so much frustration that it gives the whole process a bad rap. The accepted wisdom says that blocking should happen extremely rarely. Doyenne Caroline Estes says that in 45 years of facilitating hundreds of groups she’s witnessed a correct block less than a dozen times. But less skilled groups often struggle with more frequent blocks. Blocking based on the individual’s personal preference or values rather than on the group’s well-being and values is the most common mistake in attempts at consensus process. What can you do when someone blocks inappropriately? Here are suggestions.

Sociocracy and Consent

by Donna Freiermuth

One of the toughest challenges communities face is how they reach decisions. Although consensus is the ideal for many cohousing projects, let’s flirt with the idea that there is an alternative decision-making process. “I was ready to listen,” says Sharon Villines of Takoma Village Cohousing (Washington, DC) when she was told “sociocracy is a way to govern ourselves that respects the equal value of all persons as individuals and that produces more effective, responsive, transparent and productive organizations.”

Cohousing operating budgets 101

Adapted from a presentation at the recent 2006 Cohousing Conference by Yehudit Lieberman, Pleasant Hill Cohousing, and Laura Benedict, Eno Commons Cohousing

As the completion date of a new cohousing community nears, everyone is usually so preoccupied with construction schedules, escrow, packing, moving and so much more that it can come as a shock that it’s also time to plan how the community is going to do its bookkeeping and budgeting.

Getting the work done in cohousing

by Charles Durrett, McCamant & Durrett Architects/The CoHousing Company

The first two years of living in Doyle Street Cohousing (Emeryville, CA), we scheduled workdays one Saturday a month for six hours. There were one or two coaches, and resident volunteers could come or go fixing whatever the coach(es) previously had decided needed to be fixed. It was completely voluntary – and a total disaster.

When tensions run hot? Tips on how to facilitate difficult issues in your community

by Rob Sandelin, Sharingwood Cohousing

As you travel the road of cooperative process, you'll occasionally stumble on some pretty big potholes. These often stem from agenda items that seem trivial at first, but end up with the group splintered and bickering. It's amazing how quickly a group can get stuck in a quagmire of confusion and anger.

Communication, process and dealing with conflict

by Diana Leafe Christian, Earthaven Ecovillage

Most of us don't realize that our wider society is dysfunctional because it's just ourselves, doing what we habitually do, but multiplied and magnified by millions of people. When we see governments or corporations using manipulative, controlling or punishing behaviors, through threats, terrorist attacks or outright war, it frightens and disgusts us. But when we do the small-scale versions of these same ploys ourselves, we don't see it. We may revile "terrorists," but what about our own choice of words and tone of voice this morning with our partner or child? Those of us who think we do these behaviors the least are often the ones who do them the most. The more spiritual we imagine we are, the harder it is to see it.

Everyone has a piece of the truth

by Caroline Estes, Alpha Farm

The use of consensus as a decision-making process has increased greatly in the past 40 years or so. Cohousing groups across America make their decisions by consensus, as do many businesses, university departments, neighborhoods and other intentional communities.

Why use consensus?

by Rob Sandelin, Sharingwood Cohousing

When people choose to live in community, they hold a commitment to a relationship with each other. The value of this relationship – and the energy that goes into maintaining it – is what creates community. People choose this lifestyle expressly to create and experience a sense of belonging to the group. This is the fundamental reason why almost all cohousing communities use consensus, and why it works as well as it does.

Games and exercises for community meetings

by Tree Bressen, Walnut St. Co-op

It's spring! What better time to introduce some light and lively exercises to help community members get to know each other better or shift the energy during a challenging meeting? Playing games might seem frivolous for community members who are more business-oriented, but these exercises actually can help groups build consensus and make decisions faster.

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