I asked Daniel if we could post this here because it's about a great deal more than wifi. -cat

The best advice I can give around wifi is to be careful about how you talk to one another about it - treat those with differing experiences or thoughts respectfully while having the discussion.

Our community is in the process of healing rifts from a decision around "Smart Meters" that came not at all from the topic, but from the way in which folks were with one another.

If your community is like ours you may have:

- Folks who "know" that wifi is extremely dangerous, and exposure should be limited.
- Folks who "know" that wifi is totally harmless

- Folks who "know" that the evidence to look at is peer reviewed science
- Folks who "know" that the evidence to use is the stories they hear from friends and their own experience

Please help us plan the next National Cohousing Conference and Regional Cohousing events! This survey should only take about 5-10 minutes and will help us deliver what the cohousing community wants most.

https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/Y2BBKFV

You may have learned through our recent posting that there will not be a national cohousing conference in 2014. This will be the second year in a row in which the board members of CohoUS have felt that it is necessary to postpone what had been an annual event. We believe it is better to wait until we are better able to deliver the type of quality national conference that you have come to expect from us. Rest assured that we do not take this decision lightly and that we are working hard to figure out when and where the next national conference will take place. Please help us in our efforts to better serve your needs by filling out this survey.

Thank you,
CohoUS Board of Directors
Bill Hartzell, President, Mid-Atlantic Region

December 2013

Dear Friends of Cohousing and Community Members,

After much thought and planning we have decided to postpone our next national cohousing conference beyond 2014. This will be the second year in a row in which the board members of Coho/US have felt it necessary to delay our conference. We have decided to wait until we have the adequate resources to ensure the delivery of a high quality conference. Rest assured that we do not take this decision lightly and that we are working hard to determine when and where the next national conference will take place. We are also working on regional outreach and events - such as the regional summit and community open houses in the northeast this past September.

It would be most helpful to have your input to support our planning. To that end we will be sending you a survey in January. Your response is appreciated, as this will help the board better serve your needs and the needs of our larger community.

As I sit writing this, Christmas is right around the corner and 2014 is not too far beyond. Like most people I'm amazed how fast this year went by. As I think back over the past 12 months, I realize that a significant amount of my year has been colored by CohoUS. Honestly, it's been a challenging year. Money has been very tight, and we have had to make some difficult decisions to make sure we remained solvent. We have seen changes in staffing, as well as the departure of board members and the arrival of new ones. And through all these ups and downs, we continue to move ahead. We're making progress on the new CohoUS website and our contact database. Both we hope to share with you early in 2014. We are also working on the planning for CohoUS sponsored events during 2014 that will help us build content and momentum for the 2015 national cohousing conference.

How do you respond to the question, "What is cohousing?" I suspect you have an elevator speech similar to mine which touches on the six defining characteristics of cohousing dusted with a few specifics of the community you live in. Maybe you share a bit of the history of the concept, and talk about the distribution of cohousing communities around the country. If the individual you are talking with has not come to the conclusion after your initial response that you live in a commune, hopefully the conversation will continue. Assuming we're still talking, the interaction gets uncomfortable for me at this point. This conversation I'm having is sort of like a first date. I want to make a good impression and properly represent community life, but I'm not sure if should go all the way with someone I just met.

The Denver Post reported on November 3rd that the September floods in Colorado "took nine lives, damaged 26,000 homes, destroyed more than 1,800 homes, damaged 765 businesses, destroyed 203 businesses, damaged or destroyed almost 500 miles of road" as well as causing significant damage to other infrastructure and croplands.

Six weeks after the floods, the small town of Lyons Colorado was still without utilities, with 20% of its homes damaged, most businesses shuttered and all the roads in closed to the general public.

In 2010, a Task Force of the Cohousing Association of the US identified a need for more affordable cohousing. In response, a group of professionals from around the country came together to work on the problem. With backgrounds in law, economics, finance, business, community development, design, architecture, and planning, we had the internal resources and experience to tackle tough issues.

We formed a non-profit organization, Partnerships for Affordable Cohousing (PFAC), so that we could effectively and cooperatively use these skills to deliver specific services to clients. Today we work with existing, new, and expanding cohousing communities by incorporating both public and private finance, as well as securing the participation of agencies and other non-profits to make cohousing communities BUILDABLE, SUSTAINABLE, AND AFFORDABLE.

Donate now: Select "PFAC" as the Type of Donation

Wow - we did it! Cohousing enthusiasts came together on Sept 28th in Cambridge MA to network and learn from each other and our outstanding presenters. Existing communities learned more about work systems, maintenance of facilities, getting along and aging well together. New folks and forming groups learned about development, group formation and dynamics, and the design process. We also ate well and enjoyed strolls between our two hosting communities - thank you Cambridge Cohousing and Cornerstone Village!

On Sunday open house tours were held in 11 New England cohousing communities! The fall foliage made for a great Sunday drive between hosting communities - and many completed their tour with a potluck at Nubanusit Neighborhood or fire-roasted pizza at Katywil Farm Community.

With so many good reports on both days our planning committee thinks it might be a good idea to try to do this every other year! Until then - see you at the National conference in 2014!

Dear Cohousers & Friends,

I have submitted my resignation to the Board of the Cohousing Association, effective 1 November. This decision has been in process for some time. As many of you know, I spent much of my spring and summer in treatment for uterine cancer. I'm happy to have had a relatively straightforward journey thus far, and to be cancer free, while I undergo regular monitoring for the next five years. As often happens, facing a serious illness gives one pause, and when I was recruited into a dynamic Seattle based organization, I said yes.

The Board will be in touch regarding a long term organizational transition plan. In the meantime, Operations Manager Michelle Rasa will be the day-to-day management. As a virtual organization, Coho/US has many amazing volunteers around the country who keep it going. These lovely people will continue to support operations, and I thank them for this!